the commodification of friendship is the most annoying thing to come out of the internet in ages. like actually i love to break this to you but you’re supposed to help your friends move even if it’s hard work. or stay up with them when they’re sad even if you’re gonna lose sleep. you’re supposed to listen to their fears and sorrows even if it means your own mind takes on a little bit of that weight. that’s how you know that you care. they will drive you to the airport and then you will make them soup when they’re sick. you’re supposed to make small sacrifices for them and they are supposed to do that for you. and there’s actually gonna be rough patches for both of you where the balance will be uneven and you will still be friends and it will not be unhealthy and they will not be abusive. life is not meant to be an endless prioritization of our own comfort if it was we would literally never get anywhere ever. jesus.
Struggling extremely hard at the moment with my husband. No hot water or heating in our flat, it is minus celsius degrees in here, we cant afford basic necessities and food (Hungary is a border country to Ukraine and our money has become basically worthless, and prices went up by 3-400%) I live off my art and i havent had any sales in a couple months and he cannot work due to mental illness, we are both very ill at the moment - he needs treatment and we are in a lot of debts, any help would be greatly appreciated and honoured- as soon as i can. So much love and gratitude for any reblogs even. My paypal is paypal.me/paintdeath Thank you so much!
